October 2024

How Can I Communicate More Effectively with My Loved One?

Communicating with a loved one who has dementia can be challenging, but there are ways to make it easier and more meaningful. Start by keeping your language simple and clear, offering straightforward choices like, “Would you like tea or water?” This can help reduce confusion and make it easier for your loved one to engage. Be patient and give them time to respond. Sometimes, they just need a little extra time to process what you’ve said.

Non-verbal cues like tone of voice, body language, and facial expressions can also play a big role. A warm smile or gentle touch can communicate understanding and support when words fall short. It’s also helpful to minimize distractions during conversations—turn off the TV or radio, and have your discussions in a calm, quiet environment. And remember, even if their words are confused, always validate their feelings. A simple acknowledgment like, “I understand you’re feeling upset,” can go a long way in making them feel heard and supported.

For more tips and a helpful video on communicating with your loved one, check out our article here. Communication is about connection, and with a little patience and understanding, you can continue to foster a strong bond.

Each month, Dr. Marc Rothman, our CEO and a seasoned geriatric expert, addresses your concerns, providing practical advice and compassionate solutions to the challenges faced by those caring for loved ones with dementia. Whether you’re looking for strategies to manage daily care routines or need clarity on medical aspects of dementia, Dr. Marc is here to help. Join us to explore his responses to community questions and submit your own queries to deepen your understanding and enhance your caregiving journey.

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