December 2024

The holidays are a wonderful time to come together and reflect on cherished memories, and including your loved one with dementia in those moments can bring joy to everyone. While their memory may not be what it once was, reminiscing about the past can still be a meaningful way to connect. Start with topics that might spark happy and familiar recollections, like favorite family traditions, holiday meals, or treasured decorations. Using visual cues, such as old photographs, ornaments, or music, can make the memories more tangible and engaging.

It’s important to create a safe, supportive space for your loved one to share what they can. If sadder memories arise, be prepared to listen with compassion. Acknowledge their feelings and gently guide the conversation toward uplifting moments. For example, if a loss comes up, you might shift to celebrating the person’s life and the joy they brought to the holidays.

Keep in mind that dementia can make long conversations overwhelming. Allow your loved one to engage in smaller, manageable bursts and be ready to pivot if they seem tired or disoriented. Even if their memories are fragmented, they’ll feel valued simply by being included.

At Lizzy Care, we believe that connection and joy are at the heart of caregiving. If you’re looking for more ideas or support during the holiday season, reach out—we’re here to help.

Each month, Dr. Marc Rothman, our CEO and a seasoned geriatric expert, addresses your concerns, providing practical advice and compassionate solutions to the challenges faced by those caring for loved ones with dementia. Whether you’re looking for strategies to manage daily care routines or need clarity on medical aspects of dementia, Dr. Marc is here to help. Join us to explore his responses to community questions and submit your own queries to deepen your understanding and enhance your caregiving journey.

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